Is something wrong with me?

[Kanrabat]

It's been almost 30 years since I learned how to fap and for that much time, I can came by myself pretty easely. When one dry fap for so long, one know how his penis vs his hand work. Still, I wanted to try something new.

Yeah, for the record, I'm a virgin. I don't want to spend a fortune on a whore and I really don't want to deal with the life-ruining bullshit a girlfriend can bring. So, why not use a substitute?

The first time I used a Fleshlight, it was incredible. It work the first few times but then, I grew incensitive. Then I bought another model. It worked but not for as much sessions. I always came back to the dry fap for my sexual needs. A great while later, I tried a onahole. The 1mm Virgin didnt work at all.

Then, I upgraded for the "real mouth", La Bocca Della Vertà. The detailing on that thing is just amazing. Will it feel like that too? After a very interesting penetration, with the teeth and all, I began the virtual blowjob... after 10 minutes of stroking and 2 or 3 lube refill, my dick went limp, bored. It was supposed to be a mind-blowing experience. Instead, I spend 60$ for nothing. Just to make sure, I dry-fapped some hours later and I blew my load.

Can I only come with normal fapping anymore? Did I became incensitive with age? When I have a brain-fart and finally decide to do it with a real woman, will I feel anything at all?

Sigh...

[Konekokun]

Trust me,masturbation and sex are two tottally different things.There's no way that fapping could "spoil" you,when it comes to sex.I've been fapping since age 6 almost on a daily basis.I am now 17 and have been sexually active since 15.I know it probably sounds bad to you,but there is no "life ruining" girlfriend.It's just a bit of trial and error,until you find the girl that is perfect for you.Trust me.Sex with the girl you love,seeing her undress before your very eyes,feeling how wet she is for you,making her scream your name.Jesus fucking Christ,no masturbation,dry or onahole could replace that.For example,I have tahycardia,heart problem,which sometimes can give me trouble staying hard,but that's never happenned with my girlfriend.Trust me,get out there and try to meet the love of your life.It's a totally different thing from fapping and it feels 999999999999 times better.

[AkaiHebi]

May sound silly but make sure to eat some chocolate before masturbating. Releases endorphins in the brain.

Also, take your time. Make sure you don't get disturbed. Prepare porn that fucks up your brain. Dive slow but deep in the experience and let the masturbator stimulate your penis and push you to the edge. Keep going until you feel sweat building up and the orgasm just there very close, torture yourself like that for 10 or so minutes Don't "up-down" like handfapping: gently stroke, turn, alternate where it stimulates, use your hand to make it more or less tight, and let it drive you crazy

Sidenote: on physical stimulation a vagina will never get close to a masturbator, it's no use even trying sex if you're not crazy-in-love with the person you do it with. In such thing the feedback is essential, as Konekokun says: scents, sweat, skin contact, moans, dirty words, kisses, bodies, ...

[0xFF]

I need strong stimulation to cum. Maybe that's why sex never gave me any pleasure (one of the many reasons at least). Things like the VORZE or dakimakura fapping doesn't work on me either (I rage when I think of how much I paid for those), but regular onaholes work wonder. When I use the most stimulating ones I have (a pleasure I keep for special days) I only need slow and deep strokes to reach a delightful orgasm. When using less stimulating onaholes I need faster strokes but it works pretty well and feel much better than dry fap.

Kanrabat, I think you're like me, you need strong stimulation. The mouth of truth is pretty good in this regard (not the best but still good). It should work on you. From what you say I think there is a problem with the lub you use. You shouldn't need to refill lub after only 10 minutes. When I fap it takes much longer than that and I never ever needed a refill. Aren't you using a lub that dries too fast ? The Peace's lub is like that and that's why I hate it. Lub samples provided with onaholes usually suck too. I would recommend the Pepee lotion. Many onaholes I had that I thought were dull when I used them with another lotion now feel amazing since I use them with Pepee.

For now you could try adding a few drops of hot water (just a few) to your lub and see if it makes it more slippery and prevent it from drying too fast.

Kind regards

May sound silly but make sure to eat some chocolate before masturbating. Releases endorphins in the brain.

Does that really work ?

[AkaiHebi]

May sound silly but make sure to eat some chocolate before masturbating. Releases endorphins in the brain.

Does that really work ?

I don't usually eat choco before action but it seems like it makes some difference on me My favorite being black choco with mint filling

[Konekokun]

May sound silly but make sure to eat some chocolate before masturbating. Releases endorphins in the brain.

Does that really work ?

I don't usually eat choco before action but it seems like it makes some difference on me My favorite being black choco with mint filling

Yes,it does work.Especially dark chocolate,that seems to stimulate the body to produce and release even more endorphin due to it's high concentration of cocoa (Source: Both my parents are medics).My fav. is dark choco,for reasons of taste.

[Kanrabat]

I thought about last night and I think I knew what I did wrong. For starter, I used the lube that came with the Mouth. It was a pretty thick, almost solid gel like substance. It did dried up pretty quick. Second, I only watched animated GIF of hentai blowjobs. It got boring kinda fast. Third, I used the mouth as a "hand substitute", meaning I kept it in the same position and just stroke up and down the usual way. Get the 3 mistakes combined and it's recipie for disaster.

So tonight, I did things differently. First, I rinced the Mouth with very hot water thourougly, to pre-wet the insides and to warm it up a bit. Then, I used a brand name LIQUID water based lube and I fed it that. Using my hand, I prepared myself by browsing the latest hentai mangas on my favorite sites. I found one that was EXTREMELY hot and that made me so hard I'm about to burst like a overcooked saussage.

Then gently, while "reading" the manga, I used the mouth with subtle movements. Like kissing and biting, then on to the sucking. At first, I used the Mouth the "right" way, meaning nose up. When my dick began to feel "bored" a bit, I had a revolutionary idea.
What if I ROTATE the onahole? The Mouth is not like a standard Fleshlight and the insides is defenitely not the same everywhere. So, I just turn the onahole at a 45° angle toward the left...

WHAM!

Totally different feeling! NOW I felt something! Plus, the action on screen with that H-Manga was mind-blowing.
No refill of lube needed and barely a few minutes later, I had one of the most powerful orgasm I had in years! Like the picture below, but 10 times the intensity:

Just removing the onahole afterward gave me mini-pin-prick-painful-orgasmettes if you can figure out what I mean. The only drawback was the goopy mess left over and the fact that the Mouth is a bitch to clean.

At least, I feel normal again and I didnt spend that cash for nothing. Au contraire, mon cher!

[Fryz3]

This may sound stupid but i heard somewhere that having sex with a woman will release more 'hormons' in your body then when you are fapping. im not sure where i have read it though. but what i think is if your only after stimulation of your penis, then fapping might be more suitable for you.

[aNL]

This may sound stupid but i heard somewhere that having sex with a woman will release more 'hormons' in your body then when you are fapping. im not sure where i have read it though. but what i think is if your only after stimulation of your penis, then fapping might be more suitable for you.

Different hormones are released when you're fapping with an onahole vs. when having sex with a woman. On the other hand, the same level of hormones are released when using a ona-hip

[Sadwagon]

Sorry for the necro, but a few hours ago I was having my first experience with onaholes and this specific thread jumped into my mind, even though I've read it months ago.

My onaholes didn't feel like anything special at all.
Probably I'm at fault, but please help me guys, to find out where I messed up.

Got my order a week ago and I sadly had to wait until today for an opportunity to use them.
Didn't masturbate for 5 days, in these last 2 I was having a constant half-boner, thinking about those soft holes all the time.
Finally I'm all alone, get the box out, prepare safety measures in case someone gets home, start some good porn and I'm all ready.
Get Bangee Shake out of her bag, wash her, but for some reason I'm not that excited yet.
Figure out how to open the standard version Finish and Sleep lotion, unsure as to how much I should use, press 2 small droplets on my glans and 2 drops on the hole's entrance.
Slide in, ... well, this doesn't feel like anything.
Keep stroking and I can barely feel those strings just a little bit, but there's no sensation at all and it's as if the ribbbed structure doesn't even exist.
All I'm feeling is that it's a relatively big mass of soft rubber.
I'm moving in deeper, trying different angles, stroking in different motions, but nothing, it's just the plain soft rubber all around.
Meanwhile I went half-limp.

Well, that's disappointing, let's try something tighter, maybe that helps.
Pack out My Younger Sister Can't Be this Tight - Kirino, wash her too.
I'm not even fully erect, but holy shit that's gonna be difficult to enter.
Only put 2 small drops of lotion on her hole.
Try to get in, but I'm pushed away, try again, I'M IN! - huh? that's it?
Even after penetrating her, I don't feel there anything either. (But I guess it's nice that these holes stretch so well.)
Pushing all the way inside, her womb part gives a very, very little stimulation, but at this point I'm so fucking dissapointed, wondering why I can't feel the mind-blowing onahole sensation that so many had encountered before.
Anyway, I continue to stroke, try the suction with her womb, which should be fun, but it doesn't feel special, try different angles again and manage to cum somehow, probably rather because of the porn.
It didn't feel as good as I hoped it to, in fact I'm just sitting there, thinking that my hand feels better and why did I even have such high hopes for many years for these onaholes.

But let's give it another go, maybe I used too much lube?
About 30 minutes later, I run my finger through both onaholes multiple times until every little drop of liquid is out.
I don't even touch the lube anymore, depending solely on what remained on my member and on the onaholes' walls.
Initiate "Onahole Wars Episode IV: a New Hope". (actually ep 2)
Hope is immediately crushed as it still feels the same - like nothing.
All I feel in both holes is that it's a soft rubber.
I can't even get fully erect at this point.
Still, I continue to stroke furiously switching to both holes and somehow ended up cumming in Bangee Shake this time.
Didn't came buckets, didn't see star-platinum, it wasn't a toe-curling or mind blowing orgasm, instantly went limp and even mentally it felt life-contemplating regretfully, like fapping to some fucked up fetish for the first time. ... Or even more disappointing because you feel the temptation to look up the same fetish later, but right now I don't feel like bothering with my onaholes again for another week or two.
(Especially if I add to it the cleaning and powdering process and considering all the time and preparation it takes for a little joy, this whole experience was not worth it )

Anyway, TL:DR;
Onaholes didn't feel good.
Tried it with plenty of lube and almost no lube.
Tried multiple angles.
Tried both fast and slow strokes.
Didn't feel inner structures at all, just the general softness.
I'm 26, average sized, usually prefer fast strokes with a hard grip and since I have a large enough foreskin, I've never fapped without peeling it back, so this was the first time (and it should have felt even more amazing because of it).
What should I do? (Beside curling up and staring at the ceiling).

My only other options I can think of is using a different lube or hole.
Lube-wise I have only the small sample ones from the boxes and Finish & Sleep HARDo, beside the standard one I've used.
Got 2 more onaholes, Vagina Wrap (from ride japan) and the Mouth of Truth, plus an Ona Pit (Dot) sleeve.