Hi Fryz3, and don't worry, I'm a 22 year old hikikomori who lives with his parents, and I'm sure lot of people here are like that
Getting to the point, it really depends on your situation, but I'll explain you mine, since I've been living in 2 different situations.
You worry about 3 things: delivering of the packaging, hiding the onahole, and cleaning it. First, delivering. Well, I've mostly bought from
http://en-nls.com/ , and the package is as descrete as possible, the only thing that its known, is that is from Japan. If your parents open your packages or something, that really sucks, I hope your situation isn't that bad. If they don't, well, you gotta tell 'em a lie. I don't remember what I told them, but I tell 'em "I got something, private" or "I got stuff, my hobbies". My parents do no ask any further, so it's fine with me, but I guess you should come up with something.
EDIT:
I guess you can set up an exact delivery time with DHL, but the shipping is ridiculously expensive. Just tell 'em you're waiting for the package and lie them, don't know what to say, but yeah, I think I also had a hard time lying them and hiding it.
I think on the box it says "figurine", not sure if I remember well. Here a pic of the box by the way:
http://imgur.com/a/47Q66
Now, hiding it. I was very worried about that, the first times I bought onaholes. As i showed in my Ikappara Girl review
https://blog.onahole.eu/ikappara-girl.html, I used a cash safe, and hid it there. You will need a plastic tray to leave it after use (normally you don't feel like washing it right away), and be big enough for the lube bottle and I guess that's it.
You could also try hide it somewhere in your room where they won't find it (maybe your mother cleans your room, or something?) As long as it's a dry place, where you could leave some plastic tray it's fine. Altough you will see how after some time, maybe around a year, you will not care and will store them in a drawer, I just told my parents to not touch there, I think they did, but I don't care lol.
For cleaning it, I had a very hard time when my granpa was in the house. In my house, there is my room, the longue (salon?) which conects to the bathroom, and by grandpa was sleeping in bed in the longue (he couldn't walk much or sit). And he was there 24/7, I had 0 time of complete privacy inside my house... but, I found a way to pass by unsuspiciously! what you do, is put the onahole under your ballsack, inside your boxers, and with your pants on, just walk slowly, very casual like tired, to get to the bathroom, then wash it, and return to your room and store it
If you have no problem when receiving the package, the rest looks kinda easy I guess. A few tips, don't leave the onahole without washing more than a day, it will start to smell bad after that, a smell that won't go in a long time, also after 5+ days bacteria might grow as well. The optimal time is in less than 5 hours, but it's ok if you leave it 1 day. Make sure you buy new tiny small towells just for yourself, like in my set up, you can leave them in the bathroom and tell your parents you use them to wash your face.
As for what to buy, I'd recommend getting 2-3 onaholes and a lube, to make up for the shipping costs. Get 1 good onahole (20€ or less) and a medium-good onahole (13€ or less), and also, do not forget lube, it's 100% important you use water based lube, do not use hand soap. Beast ones are pepe wankers 360, or
https://blog.onahole.eu/stubborn-wet-me ... 360ml.html , both are very good. Do not buy Peace's, it sucks.
Well, this is all, I hope it helps, I'm sure there are many things left I could tell you but I can't come up with any right now, and I think this will be enough as a starting info. Visit the boards for more info
https://boards.onahole.eu/a/
or the blog
https://blog.onahole.eu/about
If you have any specific questions, go ahead and ask! Hope this helps, see ya!