Need advice for first time onahole! :)

[Fryz3]

Hello to the ones who read this,

First of all, i never have used an onahole or whatsoever.
I really want to buy one, but there is just one (huge) problem that prevents mr from buying.

I still live with my parents -,-

Now I know it sounds stupid, but I'm just 18 years old, going to college next year,
which is in the same city as I live in, so no reason to live on my own right?

Now, I don't know how you guys do it, but could someone give me advice on how to keep it a secret for my parents?
getting it delivered and washing the onahole, but most certainly the delivering is what im worried about.
I dont want them to recieve the package yknow.

Thanks in advance,

Fryz3.

[AnonymousD]

Hi Fryz3, and don't worry, I'm a 22 year old hikikomori who lives with his parents, and I'm sure lot of people here are like that

Getting to the point, it really depends on your situation, but I'll explain you mine, since I've been living in 2 different situations.
You worry about 3 things: delivering of the packaging, hiding the onahole, and cleaning it. First, delivering. Well, I've mostly bought from http://en-nls.com/ , and the package is as descrete as possible, the only thing that its known, is that is from Japan. If your parents open your packages or something, that really sucks, I hope your situation isn't that bad. If they don't, well, you gotta tell 'em a lie. I don't remember what I told them, but I tell 'em "I got something, private" or "I got stuff, my hobbies". My parents do no ask any further, so it's fine with me, but I guess you should come up with something.
EDIT: I guess you can set up an exact delivery time with DHL, but the shipping is ridiculously expensive. Just tell 'em you're waiting for the package and lie them, don't know what to say, but yeah, I think I also had a hard time lying them and hiding it.
I think on the box it says "figurine", not sure if I remember well. Here a pic of the box by the way:

http://imgur.com/a/47Q66

Now, hiding it. I was very worried about that, the first times I bought onaholes. As i showed in my Ikappara Girl review https://blog.onahole.eu/ikappara-girl.html, I used a cash safe, and hid it there. You will need a plastic tray to leave it after use (normally you don't feel like washing it right away), and be big enough for the lube bottle and I guess that's it.



You could also try hide it somewhere in your room where they won't find it (maybe your mother cleans your room, or something?) As long as it's a dry place, where you could leave some plastic tray it's fine. Altough you will see how after some time, maybe around a year, you will not care and will store them in a drawer, I just told my parents to not touch there, I think they did, but I don't care lol.

For cleaning it, I had a very hard time when my granpa was in the house. In my house, there is my room, the longue (salon?) which conects to the bathroom, and by grandpa was sleeping in bed in the longue (he couldn't walk much or sit). And he was there 24/7, I had 0 time of complete privacy inside my house... but, I found a way to pass by unsuspiciously! what you do, is put the onahole under your ballsack, inside your boxers, and with your pants on, just walk slowly, very casual like tired, to get to the bathroom, then wash it, and return to your room and store it

If you have no problem when receiving the package, the rest looks kinda easy I guess. A few tips, don't leave the onahole without washing more than a day, it will start to smell bad after that, a smell that won't go in a long time, also after 5+ days bacteria might grow as well. The optimal time is in less than 5 hours, but it's ok if you leave it 1 day. Make sure you buy new tiny small towells just for yourself, like in my set up, you can leave them in the bathroom and tell your parents you use them to wash your face.

As for what to buy, I'd recommend getting 2-3 onaholes and a lube, to make up for the shipping costs. Get 1 good onahole (20€ or less) and a medium-good onahole (13€ or less), and also, do not forget lube, it's 100% important you use water based lube, do not use hand soap. Beast ones are pepe wankers 360, or https://blog.onahole.eu/stubborn-wet-me ... 360ml.html , both are very good. Do not buy Peace's, it sucks.

Well, this is all, I hope it helps, I'm sure there are many things left I could tell you but I can't come up with any right now, and I think this will be enough as a starting info. Visit the boards for more info
https://boards.onahole.eu/a/
or the blog
https://blog.onahole.eu/about

If you have any specific questions, go ahead and ask! Hope this helps, see ya!

[0xFF]

Adding to what AnonymousD said, beware of the taxes. If you order from a vendor in Japan then, depending on your country and how much you order, you may be required to pay a tax upon delivery. No doubt your parents will be suspicious when the delivery guy ask them to pay for your package.

To avoid paying taxes check the laws of your country and search for the maximum amount you can order without being required to pay (if my memory serves me well, in France, you must pay taxes for anything above 150€). Another, easier, solution is to buy from a vendor who's in your country (or in the UE if yourself lives in the UE). There are some well known vendors in US (Toydemon) or Europe (Omocha Dreams, Sextoys Addict) and there's plenty of vendors on Amazon, you can check (or ask them) where they ship from.

[Fryz3]

thank you for your advice! I need to put in some more thought of what im going to buy, because 1 onahole is too expensive for shipping,
but too many might cause some trouble -,-

[hake]

Invest in a hip. It provides a better experience and is more cost effective in the long run. I learned it the hard way through purchasing various onaholes. The experience with a hip is an excellent investment.

[0xFF]

Hip ? Which one ?
I've been searching for a very good hip and tried several but I have yet to find one that's as good as the best sleeve onaholes I have.

[hake]

To provide you with the best recommendations, what hips have you tried so far and what are the best sleeve onaholes that you have, oxFF?

[0xFF]

Sure. I created another topic to avoid derailing this one any further.
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=12

[newbie]

A few tips, don't leave the onahole without washing more than a day, it will start to smell bad after that, a smell that won't go in a long time, also after 5+ days bacteria might grow as well. The optimal time is in less than 5 hours, but it's ok if you leave it 1 day.)

Hello! do you mean after not washing 5+ days that bacteria might grow or after 5+ days of uses? if so how do i get rid of it? any recommendation on powders?

[AkaiHebi]

In fact bacteria start growing right away, and the more you delay the cleaning then the worse it gets. Depending on conditions after 5 days there can already be visible invasion and noticeable stench.
Bacteria are destroyed by alcohol, but hydrogen peroxide is effective against both bacteria and mold, and white vinegar does miracles on bad odors.
About powders, starch is the best (corn or potato), talc can be used as long as you don't breathe it (sharp microparticles, and if poor quality it could contain cancerous asbestos fibers)